RESUME.md bootstrap pointers are stale or point outside the repo

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Problem

RESUME.md is the declared single source of truth for bootstrapping a fresh session, but two of its pointers are fragile or stale:

1. Persistent memory path (§7 footer): points to ~/.claude/projects/-Users-mirro-Projects-pymdp/memory/active-loop-project.md — the memory directory of a different project folder (the repo used to live under pymdp/). This session's actual memory dir is -Users-mirro-Projects-active-loop. A fresh session following the pointer reads stale state.
2. M4 affective-dyad spec (§7): "the designed-but-unbuilt next rung" lives at pymdp/docs/superpowers/specs/2026-06-08-active-loop-m4-affective-dyad-design.md — outside this repo, in another local checkout, not on GitHub. The most direct path toward the conversation goal is one rm -rf away from being lost, and invisible to anyone reading the public repo. The §6 fallback prompt also references "the M4 affective-dyad spec in pymdp".

Fix

1. Copy the M4 spec into this repo (e.g. docs/specs/m4-affective-dyad.md), update both RESUME.md references (§6 prompt + §7 map) to the in-repo path.
2. Fix the memory pointer to the correct project memory directory (or drop it in favor of the auto-loaded memory index).
3. While in there: §3 says "~59 fast tests pass" — it's 65 now (5 slow deselected); align with §5.

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